Thank God that you have yearned for spiritual leadership. On one hand I am happy but on the other hand I am confuse. I am happy because you have desire something that is good. If the head of the house is able to set the direction then the woman is able to submit and follow that will be good. The problem comes when the man sets the direction, the woman doubt, question and worst comes to worst the woman goes against what was agreed on previously. That is when the man has to consider the feelings of the woman and sometimes even have to waver in his stand in order not to get into a quarrel.
Could the man have insisted on his stand? If the man insist on his stand, woman will have two reactions:
1) Obey and follow. Impress that the man has his own conviction, happy to submit.
2) Murmured and complain that the man never consider her feeling. Make man doubt that his previous stand is a correct or wrong choice. Make man feel bad and get emotional about it.
However most of the time, woman is unable to submit to the man and on the contrary, she starts to question man that he has to earn her respect or convince her before woman can submit. In the end, this becomes a vicious cycle. Lord help me to understand women and how they want men to be the spiritual leader without getting upset that men did not consider their feelings. Thank God that I am still learning and I will not give up until I know woman better.
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